Monday, May 13, 2013

My Old Friend Jitters

By:  Stephanie Geraghty

Race-day jitters. Even though I’ve been competing in athletic events and races for two decades, this questionable old “friend” makes an appearance every time. He visits for my races and even visits me when I'm just a bystander at other people's races. I’ll confess a secret truth…sometimes he even joins me for tough Stroller Warriors runs, track workouts, or PFTs. Heck, just writing about this stuff is making the butterflies flutter right now!  Why in the world have years of experience NOT eliminated this problem?!


Me & Laurie at the 2005 Durango Half Marathon
That's us riding the bus to the start line of our
1st half marathon and feeling NERVOUS!

 
Here's the simple reason: We know that running is challenging. It’s perfectly normal to be a little nervous when you’re facing something difficult, like a race, and you care about the results. So how do we embrace those nerves and work through them?
 
Here’s a few tips that help me…
 
1) BE PREPARED: There’s something about planning my week in advance that helps me feel prepared, and therefore, more at ease. I think about what I will eat. I make lists of what I need to bring and pack my bag. The night before, I lay my gear out neatly and set my alarm twice, to ensure I don’t oversleep. I strive to arrive at the race site plenty early so I'm not stressed about being on time. Preparation does not circumvent unexpected twists but at minimum, you have retained the control that you can and it reassures an uneasy mind.
 
2)  THINK GOOD THOUGHTS: My high school coaches taught me the importance of positive thinking. Before each race I take some time to VISUALIZE the entire experience with a successful outcome. That includes thinking about waking up and getting ready, lining up at the start, running the race with powerful strides and controlled breathing, and finishing strong, crossing the line with a SMILE. I tell myself “I can do it” and practice positive self-talk. Block out the negative and just focus on the positive. Reflect on all the training you’ve done instead of worrying about any missed workouts, injuries, or illness. Seeing it all unfold in my mind makes the reality of it attainable.
 
3)  FIND YOUR SECURITY BLANKET: At a young age I was exceedingly superstitious. I insisted on wearing a specific necklace or hair-tie every meet or game. I also told myself that if I found money the day of an event it would be a good day. Regardless that this could not impact my performance, it still made me feel better! I would encourage you to find a small process that comforts you or maybe even a lucky item that you wear. I have worn a Road ID bracelet for nearly every race since 2005. It’s not only for safety, it’s just something that makes me smile and feel secure. I also like to run a 15-minute pre-race shakeout the night prior, usually after dusk. There’s something about the peace of the night that soothes me and gets me in the right mindset for the next morning. Please note that your tradition or lucky charm should not define your race or result in devastation without it! But, on the flipside, I don’t think a small “security blanket” hurts either!
 
4) UNDERSTAND YOUR PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS: I’m going to refrain from graphic detail but this must be addressed! When I’m preparing for competition my body prepares too. I want to reassure you that for most runners, both beginners and experienced, tummy aches, nausea, and frequent bathroom breaks are not uncommon on race day. They usually subside by the start. (Keep in mind that I’m not a doctor so please don’t take this as medical advice! I cannot say for sure whether your own symptoms are typical for you. Always consult a doctor if you are concerned.)
 
5) TALK TO FELLOW RUNNERS: One of the most enjoyable parts of racing is the camaraderie of fellow runners. Perhaps start the race with a friend at your side or even strive to make a new friend. Chances are the strangers next to you are feeling jitters too. Strike up a conversation and it might result in a new running buddy! Don’t be shy. Reaching out might be the difference to having a great race.
 

Despite our nerves, being together,
laughing, and having fun
made the nerves much less prominent.
(Love you and miss you, "Crapface"!)
6) REMEMBER TO HAVE FUN: As runners we all have goals in mind when we endure training. Goals are an important factor in maintaining motivation. However, those goals should never supersede having fun! Running and racing is a gift and we should not take it for granted. Some of my best friendships and memories are born out of running and racing, so treasure those moments and don’t let jitters or anything else intercede! If you have to, do a goofy frolic, wear a costume, sing a song, tell a wacky story, or break out in dance. Whatever makes you smile and reminds you that you're living life to the fullest and nothing can bring you down, do it!
 
I hope these suggestions help you overcome some of your own race-day challenges. After years of being irritated about my nervous nature, I now embrace the inevitable jitters because the extra adrenaline helps me succeed.

HAPPY RUNNING,
Steph
Stroller Warriors Founder & Camp Lejeune Coordinator

Thursday, May 2, 2013

Top 10 Reasons (and even more) to Become a Stroller Warrior


Stroller Warriors Okinawa
Number 10: There’s 15 (or so) other people who can watch (or not watch) your kids at races.


Stroller Warriors Fort Belvoir
Number 9:  You can participate in SW’s late night postings on the Facebook page. There’s always a Stroller Warrior awake somewhere!

Number 8:  You run, therefore you can eat cookies!

Number 7:  You can get a cool nickname form your running partners.


Stroller Warriors China Lake
Number 6:  You can participate in a PFT while wearing a bedazzled shirt and pushing your kids. What service member can say that?


Stroller Warriors Paris Island
Number 5:  You can add the term “Warrior” to everything you do...Cycle Warrior, Prayer Warrior, Tri Warrior, Golf Warrior, etc.

Number 4:  TMI is considered appropriate conversation.



Stroller Warriors Fort Leonard Wood
Number 3:  You get to push your kids around while they launch things (or themselves) from your stroller.

Number 2:  You get to run in costume at least once a year.


Stroller Warriors Camp Pendleton
Number 1:  You get to be part of an amazing group of military spouses!!!


Stroller Warriors Pearl Harbor
But seriously…while you might think that running tops the list in reasons to come out and join Stroller Warriors…it is really only one of the reasons. The club is so much bigger than that. Last week Mia Mashburn, chapter coordinator for Stroller Warriors said it best in a statement specific to SWCP but that truly describes ALL Stroller Warriors…
Stroller Warriors Camp Lejeune

Stroller Warriors Camp Pendleton has grown to over 300 members today. Looking back over the past year, and before that at Camp Lejeune, I can't count the number of times I have been amazed by the people who call themselves Stroller Warriors, there are just too many moments to keep track. As a team, SWCP thrives through positivity, support, and motivation. As individuals, YOU warriors face challenges in day to day life as military spouses, and 
Mia, Berenice, and Sarah SWCP
service members. Stroller Warriors brave deployments, moves, loss, illness. You manage a household, being mom and dad through your own heartache - and still manage to get out and support fellow warriors. Whether its a high five, a "BOOM," a meal train, a ride to the doctor, watching kids - you warriors truly come together and support one another. You don't stop at just other stroller warriors either. You give your time, money, and talents to support causes and serve your community. As a runner, I can open up my door and step out and cover some miles. As a Stroller Warrior I get to be a part of something pretty amazing. It wouldn't, and couldn't, be amazing if not for EACH AND EVERY warrior. THANK YOU!


I am awe inspired on a regular basis thanks to you guys. I feel so lucky, and also baffled by how many tremendous people can gather together and create such awesomeness. Again, THANK YOU WARRIORS.”

Stroller Warriors Camp Lejeune PR Event Board
by Elizabeth Harlow
This is such an accurate and colorful description about what  
Stroller Warriors is about. So, if we have a chapter at a military installation near you…join us. You won’t regret it. And if we don’t…consider whether you or someone you know would be interested in starting one.  

To join an active chapter near you, submit a request to one of our chapter pages on Facebook.

Stroller Warriors Camp Lejeune:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/strollerwarrior/

Stroller Warriors Camp Pendleton:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/137781486350480/

Stroller Warriors China Lake:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/398218546933716/


Stroller Warriors Fort Leonard Wood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/strollerwarrriorftwood/

Stroller Warriors New Orleans:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/154821081247675/


Stroller Warriors Pearl Harbor: https://www.facebook.com/groups/495464447177584/

Stroller Warriors Parris Island:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/414667825221165/



For more information on starting a chapter, or general questions regarding our organization, please email us at strollerwarrior@gmail.com


Special thanks to Mia Mashburn for her contribution, inspiration, and total awesomeness.